Saturday, January 18, 2014

Loving yourself means there has to be acceptance of your flaws along side your perfections.



I have never felt so beautifully confident in myself than I do right now. Everyone has those phases where they learn to love themselves right? Well for some reason, the edgy, grunge look and the whole piercings thing is what makes me feel confident. People ask me why and I say it's because it's who I am. I love dark colors, neutral colors and colors that look like they're dying. I am a bright, radiant person who dwells in the darkest clothing there is. I'll stop wearing black when they invent a darker color. I honestly believe you can never go wrong with black, can never go wrong wearing plain colors. You can't go wrong with basic tee's either. Additionally, I realized that gold isn't a cute color on me jewelry wise, and that silver is my color. This post was just full of random stuff, I realize that.

Let's go into something a little more about the confidence I have developed in myself. I started off hating my hair, hating my lips and my eyes. I didn't like the way I looked, but as I grew up I realized that if I don't love myself for who I am then how can i expect someone else to love me? Over time, I realized what beautiful eyes I actually do have, I realized that my hair is actually pretty healthy and nice regardless of its length, I realized my lips were luscious and beautiful, I realized that I should love me for all of me. I can't change anything about myself. And additional factors that helped me actually accept and love myself was the fact that I found out who I am and that I found my style. I would like to end this post by saying that everyone is beautiful, inside and out. You may not see it, but someone else does and once you know your worth and your beauty inside, you'll learn to love yourself and love who you are on the outside. When you fully accept your perfection, your flaws, the things you love about yourself and the things you hate, you'll realize how much of a beautiful person you are and that is all that matters. All that matters is that you accept yourself for who you are. <3